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Air Mata
2011-10-30 § 0
Sesungguhnya air mata dapat memadamkan lautan api neraka.” Air mata taubat Nabi Adam a.s Beliau menangis selama 300 tahun tanpa mendonggak ke langit tersangat takut dan hibanya terhadap dosa yang telah ia lakukan.Dia bersujud di atas gunung dan air matanya mengalir di jurang Serandip. Dari air matanya itulah Allah telah menumbuhkan pohon kayu manis dan pohon bunga cengkih.Beberapa ekor burung tela h meminum akan air mata Adam lalu berkata, “ Manis sungguh air ini.” Nabi Adam terdengar lalu menyangka burung itu mempersendakannya lalu ia memperhebatkan tangisannya. Lalu Allah mendengar dan menerima taubat Adam dan mewahyukan, “Hai Adam sesungguhnya belum Aku pernah menciptakan air lebih lazat daripada air mata taubat mu!.
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Ya Allah, Please save her..
2011-10-19 § 0
Assalam'alayykum.. Hey, I feel compelled to talk to you. You can call me N. sorry, I know I'm a total stranger. But, I have a responsible as your brother in Islam. I think and assume that you're already had some or few knowledge about Islam and our Creator. Look, I don't have the power to control you to remain in Islam, Muhammad Prophet himself had no power to control his uncle to convert Islam. But, the only thing we could do is pray. Here is what I wanted to say. He, who owned your heart.He, who owned you parent's heart and He, who owned everything. To Him, everyone shall return. And I know you know this well. And yup, I’m not facing what you face and I may not feel what you felt. But, this is what I’m facing right now. I’m having a much bigger problem and dilemma than yours which is one of my sisters in Islam right now is trying to put herself in the hell.. which I really hope she won’t do that. Nauzubillahiminzalik’..Sorry, for my language is too coarse. hey, to tell you the truth. I’m not a good guy too. But, I keep telling myself one thing. This life is TEMPORARY. How bad I wanted to be and until when I wanted to be like this? And how if I died in this circumstance without repented to Allah SWT. How will I be in front of Him? How will He react in front of me? Or the worst thing that might happened is if I don’t have any chance to meet Him, Allahuakhbar..And much worsen is he don’t even recognize me as His Servant. Oh, sister.. What if you die when you turn back to your old religion? What if?? You will not be able to face Him and He also won’t recognize you as His servant. Also you will be a fuel to light up the Hell(Jahanam) which you should already know it is 69 times the heat of the fire in this world which you’re not be able to withstand the heat. Nauzubillahiminzalik’.Oh, sister.. I won’t beg you to stay in Islam.. because Allah swt is the one who owned your heart. But, please…please..please.. do not let the tears in eyes fall to the ground. I may not know you and you may not know me, and I know I may not understand and felt what you are facing right now. But, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE.. REMEMBER THAT ALLAH IS ALWAYS WITH YOU AND ALL MUSLIM ARE HERE TOGETHER TO BEAR WHAT YOU ARE FACING RIGHT NOW.PLEASE KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH SWT AND I KNOW THERE ARE SO MANY MUSLIM OUT THERE WHO CRIED FOR YOU TOO.. PLEASE BE PATIENT FOR THIS WORLD IS ONLY TEMPORARY. THE HEREAFTER WORLD IS WHAT REMAIN FOREVER..There must be other way.. must be.. just don’t choose to turn back to your old religion. Always pray and ask for His guidance and be patience. Always talk to Him, He heard you. He will show you the way out. Insya’Allah.And PLEASE KNOW THAT HE LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANYONE WHO LOVED YOU IN THIS WORLD.. Not even you mom loves you like He loved you. Believe me.. Remember Him whenever you felt hardship in your life and He will remember you whenever and wherever you are feeling hardship in your life. ALSO REMEMBER THAT ONLY HIM CAN SHOW YOU THE WAY OUT OF ALL PROBLEM THAT YOU HAVE IN THIS WORLD. NO OTHERS CAN HELP YOU WITHOUT HIS HELP.
A Word To Digest..
Many people seem to 'like'(Facebook) when some other people tend to give advice by posting a good picture or updating a status that consist an advice as a reminder without not noticing that the advice is actually for them. It is worst enough that they just don't know or pretend to be not knowing, and much worsen is they don't realize that they are actually in default which those advice is actually referring to them.
Like for example, someone is updating status about the important of wearing Hijab and it tells us that if you were not to wear it in Islam is consider illegal which we called it as 'Haram' in Islam. And there goes this girl which is not wearing a Hijab as we could see in her Facebook profile liking('like') the status. And what's more, not only that, She seems to post a comment to the status too..
"Yes, it is so true that not wearing a Hijab in Islam is sooo..HARAMMM"
Hurm.. *sigh*
-A Word To Digest-
Like for example, someone is updating status about the important of wearing Hijab and it tells us that if you were not to wear it in Islam is consider illegal which we called it as 'Haram' in Islam. And there goes this girl which is not wearing a Hijab as we could see in her Facebook profile liking('like') the status. And what's more, not only that, She seems to post a comment to the status too..
"Yes, it is so true that not wearing a Hijab in Islam is sooo..HARAMMM"
Hurm.. *sigh*
-A Word To Digest-
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10 Surah Menghalang Ujian Besar Allah SWT..
10 Surah dapat Menghalang daripada 10 ujian Besar Allah:
1- Surah Al-Fatihah dapat memadam kemurkaan Allah SWT.
2- Surah Yasin dapat menghilangkan rasa dahaga atau kehausan pada hari Kiamat.
3- Surah Dukhan dapat membantu kita ketika menghadapi ujian Allah SWT pada hari kiamat.
4- Surah Al-Waqiah dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa kesusahan atau fakir.
5- Surah Al-Mulk dapat meringankan azab di dalam kubur.
6- Surah Al-Kauthar dapat merelaikan segala perbalahan.
7- Surah Al-Kafirun dapat menghalang kita daripada menjadi kafir ketika menghadapi kematian.
8- Surah Al-Ikhlas dapat melindungi kita daripada menjadi golongan munafiq.
9- Surah Al-Falq dapat menghapuskan perasaan hasad dengki.
10- Surah An-Nas dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa penyakit was-was.
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1- Surah Al-Fatihah dapat memadam kemurkaan Allah SWT.
2- Surah Yasin dapat menghilangkan rasa dahaga atau kehausan pada hari Kiamat.
3- Surah Dukhan dapat membantu kita ketika menghadapi ujian Allah SWT pada hari kiamat.
4- Surah Al-Waqiah dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa kesusahan atau fakir.
5- Surah Al-Mulk dapat meringankan azab di dalam kubur.
6- Surah Al-Kauthar dapat merelaikan segala perbalahan.
7- Surah Al-Kafirun dapat menghalang kita daripada menjadi kafir ketika menghadapi kematian.
8- Surah Al-Ikhlas dapat melindungi kita daripada menjadi golongan munafiq.
9- Surah Al-Falq dapat menghapuskan perasaan hasad dengki.
10- Surah An-Nas dapat melindungi kita daripada ditimpa penyakit was-was.
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Berani kita nak cakap 'TAK NAK' atau 'NANTI' pada hukum Hudud depan ALLAH AZZA WAJALLA..
2011-10-15 § 0
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There's this phrases..
2011-10-10 § 0
When you fall to the lower ground which is the lowest one and no more ground to be fall. that time, the only thing is if you're not give up is to GET UP..GET UP..GET UP..
and that's it.. I will RISE BACK, INSHA'ALLAH.. I will be a MALAY MUSLIM MILLIONAIRE IN SCORE A PROGRAMME BEFORE MY AGE TURN TO 21th, INSHA'ALLAH.. this is my target.. my target.. ameenn3.. ya rabb..
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Between LOVE and LUST..
2011-10-08 § 0
Question :
ANONYMOUS: "Everyone has their own definition of love so, you know. It’s different for me." what do you mean by that? tell me, love is a nature for human being right, then how do you control it so that you ain't fall in love with other people. Subhanallah.Answer :
Since you’re asking what I mean by that, I’ll tell you. People tend to confuse lust with love. I know the difference between the two and within Islam we it’s not encouraged to speak to opposite gender unless it’s really necessary. So tell me how could you fall in love with someone you’ve only exchanged a couple of words with? How could you fall in love with someone you don’t know? It’s different for me because how could I do those things I’ve just asked. I make duaa all the time that I don’t confuse lust with love and that, that’s not the only thing running through my mind all the time. I can control my desires Alhamdulilah, to me it’s a matter of putting my trust in Allah SWT and making him my appointed Wali, He sees EVERYTHING, inside and out. Why waste my time running after what I barely have any knowledge of. I wrote a whole piece on my opinion on this, it’s called “True Love” you should read it that way I don’t have to explain all over again, I think you’ll understand way better when you read that.
Sharing an answer from a blog. SubhanAllah T.T
Antara persoalan kahwin awal
2011-10-05 § 0
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: Tiga perkara yang jangan dilambat-lambatkan, iaitu solat apabila telah masuk waktunya, jenazah apabila telah siap (urusan mandi dan kafan) dan anak gadis setelah ditemui (pasangan) yang sesuai untuknya. (H.R. Tirmidzi)
Kahwin awal bukan satu masalah. Mari lihat persoalan-persoalan yang selalu menerjah di kepala anak-anak muda yang fitrahnya terhalang atas sebab-sebab tertentu.
1. Kahwin waktu masih belajar, adakah tidak mengganggu pelajaran?
Siapa cakap kahwin waktu sedang belajar mengganggu? Salah tanggapan tu. Sepatutnya, kahwin awal lebih memberi kita semangat yang membara. Yelah, sudah ada pasangan yang halal dan akan sentiasa menyokong kita, mesti la lagi bersemangat mau belajar kan? Lagi satu, orang yang sudah kahwin ni akan berasa lebih bertanggungjawab dari sebelum kahwin. Sebab mereka tahu bahawa mereka punya pasangan untuk dijaga, jadi mereka pun akan berusaha untuk buat yang terbaik bagi pasangan mereka. Apa-apa pun, tengok ibu bapa kita saja sebagai contoh. Sudah kahwin, tapi adakah mengganggu kerja mereka? Tidak kan?
2. Saya masih belajar, macam mana mahu bagi nafkah pada isteri kalau belum ada kerja?
Saya tahu ramai antara kita yang masih belajar, dan ramai yang meminjam PTPTN atau dapat biasiswa. Saya beranggapan pasangan yang ingin dikahwini jugak masih study, dan juga meminjam PTPTN atau dapat biasiswa. Jadi ia bermakna dua-dua masih dapat hidup dengan wang yang asas tu. Jadi, sementara masih belum ada kerja, suami berilah nafkah yang termampu kepada isteri. Mungkin RM50 atau RM100 sebulan? Bergantung kepada berapa banyak isteri gunakan untuk makan. Lagipun, isteri jugak ada wang, jadi tak perlu rasa ada masalah di situ. Yang penting dua-dua masih dapat hidup. Lain la kalau isteri demand kereta, rumah, rantai emas, baju berlambak-lambak, dan macam-macam lagi. Jadi, sepatutnya tiada masalah dalam bab nafkah. Cuba kita tengok orang Arab zaman Nabi dulu. Adakah kebanyakan daripada mereka orang berharta? Tidak. Mereka cuma mampu memberi isteri makan makanan setakat yang mereka mampu beri. Itu pun sudah mencukupi untuk dijadikan nafkah. Nabi tak larang pun orang miskin berkahwin. Jangan jadikan kekurangan wang sebagai penghalang perkahwinan. Itu namanya menyalahkan takdir Allah. Berdosa.
Firman Allah: Dan kahwinkanlah orang-orang bujang (lelaki dan perempuan) dari kalangan kamu, dan orang-orang yang soleh dari hamba-hamba kamu, lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, Allah akan memberikan kekayaan kepada mereka dari limpah kurniaNya kerana Allah Maha Luas (rahmatNya dan limpah kurniaNya), lagi Maha Mengetahui. (An-Nur:32)
3. Macam mana mahu cari modal untuk majlis perkahwinan?
Sebelum itu, saya mahu tanya. Apa perkara asas dalam kahwin? Ya, akad nikah dan walimatul urus. Merisik dan bertunang tu bukan wajib pun. Jadi, potong kos seperti bagi hantaran waktu merisik dan bertunang, sudah jimat wang. Waktu akad nikah pun, jemputlah keluarga terdekat dengan kawan-kawan saja yang dapat datang. Berdosa bila tidak menghadiri jemputan walimatul urus. Jadi, jimat sikit kos kenduri. Dan tidak perlu sanding-sanding semua tu kerana hukumnya haram jika bersanding depan bukan mahram. Buang wang saja sewa pelamin, sewa baju pengantin, sewa jurukamera dengan mak andam semua tu kerana ia termasuk dalam hal-hal yang sia-sia. Mas kahwin pun tidak perlu tinggi-tinggi kerana sebaik-baik magar adalah yang paling rendah. Mudah saja majlis perkahwinan dalam Islam. Tidak sampai puluh ribu pun.
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w: Tiga golongan yang akan selalu diberi pertolongan oleh Allah ialah seorang mujahid yang selalu memperjuangkan agama Allah s.w.t, seorang penulis yang selalu memberi penawar dan seorang yang menikah demi menjaga kehormatan dirinya. (H.R. Thabrani)
4. Tidak terlalu awalkah untuk saya berkahwin?
Kalau rasa dengan kahwin boleh buat semangat untuk belajar semakin meningkat, kahwin la. Kalau rasa kahwin boleh buat diri semakin bersemangat dalam agama, kahwin la. Kalau rasa kahwin boleh elak daripada fitnah dan maksiat, kahwin la. Itu maksudnya, kahwin memang perlu di usia muda. Benda yang baik, jangan dilambatkan. Takut kelak bertukar menjadi benda yang tidak baik. Cuba bayangkan anda ada pasangan yang disukai. Kan bagus kita cepatkan benda yang baik dengan berkahwin terus. Tapi kalau kita melambatkan perkahwinan yang bagus itu, mungkin kita akan terjerumus ke lembaah maksiat. Kenapa kita boleh beralasan untuk melakukan perkara yang halal, tetapi tidak langsung mengemukakan alasan untuk melakukan perkara yang haram? Tanya diri, jagalah iman.
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w: Apabila datang kepadamu seorang laki-laki untuk meminang, yang engkau redha terhadap agama dan akhlaknya, maka nikahkanlah dia. Bila tidak engkau lakukan maka akan terjadi fitnah di muka bumi dan akan timbul kerosakan yang merata di muka bumi. (H.R. Tirmidzi dan Ahmad)
5. Bersediakah saya untuk kahwin awal?
Ini soalan paling bagus ditanya kepada diri sendiri. Tanya dulu soalan asas ni. Sudahkah saya solat penuh 5 kali sehari semalam? Bertanggungjawab sudahkah saya? Adakah saya panas baran atau penyabar? Adakah saya seorang yang bercakap menggunakan akal atau bertindak menggunakan akal di lutut? Pendek kata, ada banyak soalan spesifik yang boleh ditanya kepada diri sendiri. Walau apa pun jawapan dia, ini nasihat saya. Sentiasalah perbaiki diri dan mantapkan diri. Orang yang sudah berkahwin dan sedang belajar solat lebih baik berbanding orang yang sudah kahwin dan pandai solat tapi tidak amalkannya lepas kahwin. Orang yang bersedia mengubah dirinya adalah yang paling bersedia sebenarnya.
6. Macam mana dengan restu ibu bapa?
Ya, ini la benda paling susah bila mahu kahwin awal. Faktor penghalang paling utama. Kalau kita dapat menjelaskan dengan baik kepada ibu bapa dan mereka faham, insyaAllah tiada masalah untuk berkahwin awal. Tapi kalau ibu bapa kita susah mahu terima sebab fikiran mereka masih terikat dengan fikiran tipikal masyarakat Melayu sekarang ni yang lebih terpengaruh kepada adat dan cerekarama di tv semata-mata, serta pemikiran risau akan tak cukup wang nak sara anak dara orang, sudah tentu mereka tidak akan terima setiap hujah yang diberikan seperti di atas. Apa-apa pun, saya doakan yang terbaik untuk mereka yang mahu kahwin awal supaya cepat bertemu jodoh. Ingat, bila seseorang itu berkahwin kerana ingin mengikut sunnah Rasulullah, maka terbukalah segala pintu rezeki untuknya. Lihat, betapa banyaknya kelebihan kahwin awal. Fikiran kita yang sempit saja membuatkan kahwin ni nampak terlalu susah sangat.
Umar bin al-Khattab r.a telah berkata: Kahwinlah anak-anak kamu apabila sampai baligh, janganlah kamu menanggung dosa-dosa mereka. (Disebut oleh Ibnu Jauzi dalam Ahkam An-Nisa)
Nasihat saya untuk golongan-golongan yang sedang hangat bercinta tu, sebaiknya kahwinlah awal. Lebih banyak kelebihan kahwin awal berbanding kahwin lambat. Tapi semua itu pilihan masing-masing juga. Mudah-mudahan setiap pilihan yang kita buat adalah yang terbaik dan dirahmati Allah. InsyaAllah.
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: Siapa yang benci dengan cara hidup (sunnah) ku maka dia tidak termasuk golonganku. (H.R. Bukhari dan Muslim)
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A word of thought..
"it’s not what others limit you to but what you limit yourself to and when it comes to limiting yourself, leave that to Allah SWT because He really can make or break you. Your limits are in His hands. Don’t let others tell you what you can and can’t do when it comes to reaching new limits within life." - anonymous -
"Just because you limit yourself to what you think you can’t do, doesn’t mean Allah SWT can’t set new limits for you. Ask Him, He’s waiting." - Marwa Ahmed -
SubhanAllah T.T
GOLDEN RULES OF LIFE
*** GOLDEN RULES OF LIFE ****
Be truthful in everything, don’t lie.
Be sincere and straightforward, don’t be hypocritical.
Be honest, don’t be corrupt.
Be humble, don’t be boastful.
Be moderate, don’t be excessive.
Be reserved, don’t be garrulous.
Be soft-spoken, don’t be loud.
Be refined and gentle in speech, don’t curse and use foul language.
Be loving and solicitous to others, don’t be unmindful of them.
Be considerate and compassionate, don’t be harsh.
Be polite and respectful to people, don’t be insulting or disrespectful.
Be generous and charitable, don’t be selfish and miserly.
Be good natured and forgiving, don’t be bitter and resentful.
Share and be content with what Allah has given you, don’t be greedy.
Be cheerful and pleasant, don’t be irritable and morose.
Be chaste and pure, don’t be lustful.
Be alert and aware of the world around you, don’t be absent-minded.
Be dignified and decent, don’t be graceless.
Be optimistic and hopeful, don’t be cynical or pessimistic.
Be confident and have deep faith, don’t be doubtful and wavering.
Be spiritually oriented and not materialistic.
Be confident of the mercy of Allah, don’t be despairing and lose heart.
Be diligent and vigilant of your duties, don’t be negligent.
Be thankful to Allah and constantly pray to Him, don’t be forgetful of His innumerable blessings..♥
<HM>
Be truthful in everything, don’t lie.
Be sincere and straightforward, don’t be hypocritical.
Be honest, don’t be corrupt.
Be humble, don’t be boastful.
Be moderate, don’t be excessive.
Be reserved, don’t be garrulous.
Be soft-spoken, don’t be loud.
Be refined and gentle in speech, don’t curse and use foul language.
Be loving and solicitous to others, don’t be unmindful of them.
Be considerate and compassionate, don’t be harsh.
Be polite and respectful to people, don’t be insulting or disrespectful.
Be generous and charitable, don’t be selfish and miserly.
Be good natured and forgiving, don’t be bitter and resentful.
Share and be content with what Allah has given you, don’t be greedy.
Be cheerful and pleasant, don’t be irritable and morose.
Be chaste and pure, don’t be lustful.
Be alert and aware of the world around you, don’t be absent-minded.
Be dignified and decent, don’t be graceless.
Be optimistic and hopeful, don’t be cynical or pessimistic.
Be confident and have deep faith, don’t be doubtful and wavering.
Be spiritually oriented and not materialistic.
Be confident of the mercy of Allah, don’t be despairing and lose heart.
Be diligent and vigilant of your duties, don’t be negligent.
Be thankful to Allah and constantly pray to Him, don’t be forgetful of His innumerable blessings..♥
<HM>
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Carilah hatimu di tiga tempat..
“Carilah hatimu di tiga tempat..Carilah hatimu sewaktu bangun membaca
Al-Quran.Jika tidak kau temui, carilah hatimu ketika mengerjakan solat.
Jika tidak engkau temui, carilah hatimu ketika duduk tafakur mengingati
mati. Jika engkau tidak temui juga, maka berdoalah kepada Allah, pinta
hati yang baru, kerana hakikatnya pada ketika itu kau tidak mempunyai
hati.” (Imam Al-Ghazali)”
Al-Quran.Jika tidak kau temui, carilah hatimu ketika mengerjakan solat.
Jika tidak engkau temui, carilah hatimu ketika duduk tafakur mengingati
mati. Jika engkau tidak temui juga, maka berdoalah kepada Allah, pinta
hati yang baru, kerana hakikatnya pada ketika itu kau tidak mempunyai
hati.” (Imam Al-Ghazali)”
Some things Muslim women should not do and stay away :
2011-10-04 § 0
Some things Muslim women should not do:
- they should not shy away from speaking about their religious identity and why they choose to be Muslim; whether it is a male or female; non Muslim or Muslim.
- they should not shy away from questioning those who insult them or ridicule them either behind their backs or in front of their face; let them be bold and question the mockery and ignorance.
- they should not accept any indecent attitudes or behaviors from anyone. Every human being must treat the Muslim women with full respect and not dehumanize or degrade them in anyway; especially in their rights/
- they should not fret.
- they should not allow anyone to speak for them in regards to their struggles or lifestyle. They should not entirely allow anyone to speak on their behalf about their struggles or their personal issues in regards to anything they deal with.
Some things Muslim women should stay away from:
- people who will abuse them emotionally and physically. If you believe that there is a guy who will ask for your hand, but hasn’t even gotten close to contacting your parents in any form, then he is not a man you need. Dont let guys like that abuse you and use you emotionally.
- stay away from false friendships. If you do not surround yourself around sincere friends who will teach you, encourage you, and provide for you knowledge (whether it is Islamic or secular) because they love you, then it is not a friendship worth keeping.
- stay away from Shaytan because he comes in all forms, in many shapes, and in too many sizes. Always remember Allah in everything that you do because when you begin to remember Allah, Allah will remember you. And what is more beautiful than having your Lord remember you, subhanAllah?
Bersyukurlah..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah meletakkan anda dalam BIDANG itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah mengurniakan anda KEPAKARAN itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah memasukkan KELEMAHAN itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah memberikan UJIAN sebegitu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah membiarkan anda mengemudi dalam KEADAAN sebegitu..
MELAINKAN Allah tahu anda akan memberikan sesuatu dalam bidang itu..
MELAINKAN Allah tahu anda bakal membiakkan ilmu-ilmu itu..
MELAINKAN Allah akan temukan anda dengan insan-insan ikhlas membantu..
MELAINKAN Allah mahu menguatkanmu..
MELAINKAN Allah mahu anda tahu betapa tingginya kasih sayangNya padamu..
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